Unapologetically YOU
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Support for Every Journey
For Trans Lives — and Those Who Walk Beside Them
Compassionate coaching for trans and queer individuals, and the people who love them. Whether you're navigating identity, dysphoria, shame, professional or personal relationship challenges, you’ll find grounded support, healing tools, and space to grow with clarity, confidence, and self-trust.
Hello, I'm Reid Allen.
I’m a trans man and an emotional well-being coach.
I support trans and queer individuals, as well as parents, partners, and loved ones of trans people, in navigating the emotional complexity of transition with proven tools for growth.
My Values & Coaching Philosophy
Empathy Rooted in Experience
I’ve lived the complexity of being trans in a world that often doesn’t understand us—and I know the emotional terrain firsthand.
Emotional Resilience &
Self-Understanding
I use collaborative coaching strategies to help you process difficult emotions, set boundaries, and strengthen your sense of self.
Whole-Person,
Judgment-Free Support
I offer space to be messy, to feel your feelings fully, and to make sense of what’s unfolding—so you can grow with clarity, power, and connection.
I’ve walked this path. I’ve felt lost, afraid, and unseen. I also found my way to clarity, compassion, and connection. Coaching helped me untangle harmful patterns and establish a genuine relationship with myself. I became the person I’d always hoped to be—and now I help others do the same.
Start With a Free 45-Minute Intro Session
Here, you don’t need to have everything figured out—just come as you are. This is a no-pressure space designed for you to be heard, reflect, and receive meaningful support. I'm here to walk alongside you, no matter where you are.
The journey is not about becoming someone new,
but about rising into the truth of who you already are;
rooted, whole, and unapologetically you.
For Trans & Queer Individuals
Whether you're just beginning your transition or are years into it, you may feel overwhelmed, tired, or unsure of your next steps. You may be navigating internalized shame, dysphoria, or disconnection in your relationships.
COACHING CAN HELP YOU
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Understand and process emotions in a healthy way.
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Heal internalized transphobia and shame.
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Set boundaries and deepen self-respect.
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Build confidence and emotional resilience.
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Cultivate stronger relationships with yourself and others.
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Move through the world with more peace, clarity, and joy.
For Loved Ones of Trans People
Supporting someone through transition can bring up so much; grief, guilt, fear, and confusion. You might feel like you’re supposed to be “on board,” but you haven’t had a safe place to process your own emotions.
YOU MIGHT BE WONDERING
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Is it okay to feel this way?
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How do I support them without losing myself?
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What if I say the wrong thing?
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Will my child or partner be safe, loved, and okay in the world?
You don’t have to carry it alone. This space is for you to be messy, honest, and human. Together, we’ll unpack what you’re holding, reframe shame or fear, and help you find clarity so you can show up with intention and care.
Your journey matters too. You can’t fully support someone else unless you’re grounded in yourself. Let’s begin with you.
Ethan
I would highly recommend Reid to anyone seeking guidance along their path. His professional, compassionate approach gave me the tools and awareness to process my thoughts and emotions in a healthier way.
Katy
I would highly recommend Reid’s expertise to any parent looking for professional and caring support for their child or family. My son instantly connected with him, and Reid’s kindness, patience, and knowledge made a real difference during the early stages of his transition.
Holly
Reid was able to help me go from a place of guilt and shame to a place of unconditional love and pride for my transgender daughter.
1:1 Coaching
Personal coaching sessions for trans and queer individuals navigating identity, self-worth, transition, mental health, relationships, and emotional healing.
Sessions for parents, partners, and loved ones of trans people to process their own emotions, ask questions, gain clarity, and receive personalized guidance on navigating their role in a loved one’s transition.
Group Coaching (coming soon)
I'm building a new group coaching program, and your input can make all the difference. This survey is a chance to share what would help you feel safe, supported, and empowered in a group setting. Your perspective will help me build something that’s not only useful but truly transformative.